The Gift of No

On July 2, 2012, in Editorial Advisory Board, Heather Bussing, HRExaminer, by Heather Bussing

The Gift of No - by Heather Bussing - HRExaminer

No sets you free.

by Heather Bussing

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When you apply for a job, especially when you really, really, need a job, you’re scared and vulnerable. You are opening yourself to judgment about whether you’re good enough. You might be rejected.

There’s also this glimmer of hope. You start to imagine being there, the excitement of starting something new. You dream of money and security. Maybe you can pay down the credit card. Or buy meat again.

It’s like the moment right after you get a lottery ticket when you fantasize what your life will be like if you win. Often, the odds are about the same.

You fill out the fields in the online application and upload your resume. You try to say  why you would be great for the job, searching for words to show you are special. You don’t want to look desperate. But you are.

Even if you have a job, applying for a new one with strangers is disconcerting. It feels like you’re walking naked into a party where everyone knows each other, but no one knows you.

The reality is that you can be naked with a hot pink boa, but the ATS won’t really notice what you’re wearing, or even whether you seem nice. The chance of anyone even looking at your information is low.

It’s more like pouring a glass of water into a lake.

But you have no way of knowing that because pretty soon you get a friendly email thanking you for your interest in the company and telling you how glad they are that you applied. They say they will consider you. And even if you’re not right for the position you applied for, they’ll keep your information on file. They might even contact you if another position opens that would be good for you. Wow, you think. This could work out.

They give you hope.

Most of the time though, there is no hope. Only a few people of hundreds or thousands get a call or an interview. Everyone but the person who gets the position is rejected. It’s a process of No.

There are many smart and compassionate people working on how to make this reality better, kinder, more respectful. They call it Candidate Experience. They are looking hard at what it’s like from the moment the job is written, how it is described, where you find it and what that’s like. They are looking at the application process and how companies respond.

They are trying to make a kinder, gentler No.

I don’t think people want a kinder, gentler no. They want a yes. If they can’t have that, they want to be able to easily find out where they are in the process. And if they can’t have that, they would rather have a quick no.

No sucks. No dashes your fantasies. But No also lets you move on. No is what gets you to the company that says Yes.

No sets you free.

If companies really want to improve candidate experience, they will end the stress and angst of false hope. They will give the gift of No.

Thank you to DICE and Sarah White for putting together a panel on the Candidate Experience Awards in the DICE Blogger’s Lounge at SHRM12 in Atlanta. Thank you Gerry Crispin and John Sumser for taking the time during their hectic conference schedules to talk to me about this issue and to begin my education in how ATS’s and hiring processes that use them work.

 
  • http://twitter.com/TLColson Tammy Colson

    Thanks for saying this. It has been one of my goals in my contract recruiting to get the yeses and nos to the candidates as quickly as possible. However, if folks want to see more yeses, they need to make sure they are an 80% match to job requirements when they apply – and they need to be honest with themselves, along with at least making an attempt to tell me how you fit if its not completely obvious.

    Otherwise, many candidates are setting themselves up for disappointment when they apply for a mechanical engineering job with a degree in molecular biology. There’s no turning that into a “maybe” fit. It does mean you apply for less jobs, but it also increases the chance of rising to the top of the heap.

  • http://www.facebook.com/waqueau D. Mark Hornung

    Excellent post, Heather. People want some certitude in their lives. That’s why, if an airline is going to cancel a flight, passengers prefer you just come right out and do it rather than keep delaying the flight until it is later than the one scheduled after it. Same is true with job seekers. Honesty and transparency are fundamental to a good candidate experience.

  • http://www.hrexaminer.com/ Heather Bussing

    I agree that it’s also important for people to be honest with themselves about whether they are qualified for the positions they apply for. Why waste everyone’s time?

    Part of it has to do with state unemployment benefits. In order to get benefits, you have to show you applied for jobs. Any job will do. In these situations, the “candidate” is really just looking for the rejection.

  • http://twitter.com/LisaScales Lisa Scales

    I love this Heather – in my eyes Candidate Experience = timely honesty – thats all anyone wants in job application processes and in life! I think we have the opportunity now with the technology we have at our fingertips to remove Candidate Experience as a concept entirely – if it wasn’t a problem Candidate Experience would NOT exist. Love your post and love the honesty within it.

  • Ayush

    Are Fresher candidates really ready to hear a NO?

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